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Not many of us are able to think logical and act rational in a state of shock, hurt and disappointment. Departure of a romantic partner from life is such a devastating event. The sky has finally fallen and in a hurry to set things right in getting your ex back, you end up doing things, which make your goal even tougher to achieve than it already is. Chances are that you have already committed one or many of the common blunders as mentioned below. Even then, it makes sense to revisit them, so that you can stop on the tracks and take control of the situation before it goes completely out of hand.
Getting your ex back is a time-consuming and wearing-down process where the victim of sacrifice is most often your ego. Then, all is fair in love and war, where the former is taking a temporary break and latter is now the focus of attention. Here are 10 of the most common faux pas that many deserted souls make:
1. Anger management is the key to success in getting your ex back. Control all the negative emotions as much as possible. Physical or verbal aggression, using abusive words, calling each other names or even bringing family members in to the confrontation can only make things worse. Remember, such actions are irretrievable even after you succeed in getting your ex back, though this is the most common mistake most people make.
2. Wooing your partner back with flowers and gifts is meaningless. Your ex would invariably misconstrue this as weak attempts in pacification. Stay away from making this mistake.
3. Even when you feel at the core of your heart that your partner is guilty of breaking up a perfectly loving relationship, avoid mentioning it when emotions are running high. In any case, you are not a mentor trying to put your ex on a path of righteousness.
4. Do not use any counter-logic when your ex has already taken the final decision to leave. They would invariably fail in getting your ex back.
5. If men do not cry, women also should not, while getting your ex back. Crying, pleading or cajoling your ex to stay back, even for old times' sake, means only one thing. It eats into your ego, affects your self-esteem and makes you a weak person in the eyes of your ex.
6. If your ex was hard enough to take a decision like leaving you, appealing to softer sentiments like recalling the numerous instances of love shared between the two of you would mean nothing in getting your ex back. Never try to thaw the hardened mind immediately after your ex has left you.
7. Never try to arouse pity or sympathy, as this is the weakest element to sustain any relationship. With pity, you might be successful in getting your ex back, but only for a short while. Pity is cancerous in any relationship.
8. Another mistake to avoid in getting your ex back is to seek help from others like family and friends. No amount of free advice would work in changing the hardened mind to repair a failed relationship.
9. Perhaps one of the reasons for the break up was unmet expectations from both sides. Stop making this mistake again by promising that you would 'change' and 'things would be alright' soon. Face it, even if you 'change' you would forever remain the quintessential you and so would your partner.
10. Never make the mistake of taking advantage of areas where your ex might be vulnerable. No amount of mental pressure is going to help in getting your ex back. No matter how desperate, lonely and heartbroken you feel, you have to muster up enough guts to look the situation in the eye and be strong.
