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Although there is more flexibility in the love department for both sexes, relationships between people whose ages are quite different still make them feel like they cannot openly talk about it or let others see them. The reason for that is an old stereotype: there should not be more than say five years of distance between the two people and the man has to be older.
The age distance is just a number somebody came up with at some point, mostly applied to women as there are movies that date back to the 1950's that showed relationships between older men and younger women. Take a classic like Sabrina, Linus was much more than five years older than Sabrina and women were still supposed to sigh and want to find themselves a Linus. And going even further back there is Jane Austen's Mr. Darcy, the perfect man for Elizabeth Bennet. That happened a century earlier.
So, why are men who date younger women called cradle robbers? Or women who do the same called cougars? It is part of humanity's number one twisted pleasure: to limit its own options. A simple number should determine who or why you date. If you like a person and feel comfortable when you are with that person, why must it be a number between you?
Others argue that the number has to do with maturity, that women are more developed psychologically than men at an earlier age. Might be true if we consider women's tendency to be nurturing, but there really is no scientific hard facts to prove this. People are different, just like there are men who mature at earlier ages than women, the opposite occurs. This is no reason to automatically say no to an older-younger scenario.
Finally, the generational objection to the 40-20 relationship is no longer applicable. If we look at the changes that society has experienced in lapses of 10 years going back 30 years, we can easily see that a twenty year difference means nothing anymore. If the couple has enough things in common to have a good time together, then where is the generational issue?
It all boils down to a getting stuck on a number. Age does not determine who people are, we do. So forget about what other people might think, forget about stereotypes and allow yourself the opportunity to discover if that younger or older person is the love of your life.
