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A good relationship takes time and effort. Most people don't realize this and they let a relationship with many possibilities fail and die. One of the biggest reasons why relationships don't last is because they fall into negative patterns and they don't realize it.
I am going to share with you the top 10 mistakes people make in relationships. Hopefully you can spot one that you often do and try to mend your ways. Hopefully you can catch yourself, apologize, and save a lot of grief.
1 - Leftover Ex's
If your not over your ex yet, you can never start a new healthy relationship. The person in your new relationship will always be suspicious and this will hurt both of you often. Make it clear that your ex is not a factor anymore. State is clearly!
2 - I Love You
There is no rush in telling the person in your life that you love them. If it is a new relationship you can always hold off until you see good signs. If the other person takes an equal share in trying to get your attention and asking you on more dates, then you know the relationship is ready for that level.
3 - The Green Eyed Monster
Don't be jealous. Jealously always leads to very bad arguments. In the early stages of a relationship, showing jealously can put a hamper on your emotional bonding. You need enough confidence to know your partner will not cheat on you. It's always better to assume the best. If your partner does not cheat and you accuse the person of it, you will harm the relationship greatly.
4 - Do Not Cheat
If you cheat, the relationship is basically over. The earlier you do it, the worse it is. Once you cheat, trust is lost. You might start accusing the other person because you assume they are like you. If you have been forgiven, this is not the whole truth. Your partner will hold it against you for the rest of your life no matter what.
5 - Don't Dwell
Remember when I said that your partner will never forget how you cheated? Well, you have to do your best to forgive and forget. Doesn't this make sense? Sure, if your prater cheats on you, it will be hard to forget. Chances are your relationship will never recover, but if you have a fight, try to always be the bigger person. Your partner will take notice and do the same. If not then you need to find someone who can.
6 - No Passenger Driving
Don't let your friends and family tell you what to do in YOUR relationship. Nobody knows the person your with better than you (depending on how long you've been going out.) Only you know what to do if their is a problem. Always seek advice, but take it with respect to your own opinion.
7 - Changing Them
Try never to change anything about your partner. Sure, there might be some things about them you would like to change, but this can't be forced. Only when your partner is accepted the way he/she is can they truly change. Yes, change is important. We all need to grow and if your partner does not, you have to have a serious conversation. Do not nag until you get your way. This will just build resentment.
8 - Communicate
There is nothing more powerful than talking. Always talk with your partner. I know many men don't like to share feelings and talk, but it is your job then to help. I don't know of many cases where the woman doesn't like to discuss feelings, but they are out there as well. If you have a problem or if your stressed, your partner should be helping you. Similarly, always be open to listen to your partner's thoughts, feelings, and problems. You are supposed to be creating a life together. Their is no better way than through communication.
9 - Blame
If you ever fight with your partner do not try to pass the blame around. For example, if you can't find the remote and you both sit their blaming each other for moving it, you will start a fight for no reason. This happens very often because people never want to believe they did something wrong. Admitting error is almost impossible for most people. If you realize this and start blaming yourself, your relationship will flourish.
10 - No Longer in Love
This often happens. if you feel like your no longer in love with the other person, it is your duty to talk with them. In many cases, one person or both will be taking the other for granted. This usually leads to lack of feeling for one another. You have to rekindle your love for each other or end it right there. This is why communication is key. If you end it without knowing why you no longer feel those sparks, you might lose out in the end.
