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Ever wondered what it would be like to find that perfect one, your soul mate? Well after reading this article you wont be wondering, you will find them! In the first article of Dating for Beginners we will cover the full dating scene. How to understand dating and what you want.
Many of us enter a panic phase when we make it our goal to find a new partner. As soon as someone pays us a little interest we think they may be the one! We normally settle for less meaning we settle for someone completely inappropriate for us, simply through fear!
Before you start the process for looking for a new partner, it is important to create a list of goals. What do you want from your life? What characteristics does your ideal partner posses? While creating a list of things you find attractive in a partner create a list about yourself. By creating your own goals and emphasizing your own unique qualities you will develop more self-esteem and self-reliance that others find appealing.
An example of a list is : I am looking for a person with high-self esteem. The person must be emotionally available and not remaining in the past. The person must now have a history of addictions. The person must be committed to a relationship and building a future.
It is true that the only way you can meet someone is to socialize whether that be through a trip to a bar or on-line. If your interests are salsa dancing, then don't sign up for a street dance class. Engage in something that reflects your personality. Do something that you enjoy, that way anyone you meet will share the same interests as you do.
You may feel your ready for a relationship, but the person you are attracted to isn't. Perhaps you have been dating for a while yet you still feel you are receiving missed messages regarding the future. The only way to clear this up is to sit down and have a conversation with them. Things you may be inclined to ask is: Do you love me? Are you ready to be in a committed relationship? What do you see the future holding for us?
It is important to be honest, not only with yourself but with your potential partner. Discuss your goals and ambitions, your hobbies and children. Through this process you will find out whether or not you are truly compatible. Just a note that nobody likes to be interrogated or quizzed like this on the first few dates. Wait until you feel emotionally connected to this person and when you think they feel the same.
When it comes to finding a soul mate, time is still your best friend. Many people who are new, or just getting back into the date scene flounder horribly because they take rejections and bad experiences to personally. They see other peoples behaviour as a judgement or reflection on them.
You as well as the other person are "allowed" to let go of a relationship that is not working out. Letting go is not only the courageous thing to do, it is also the right thing to do. Otherwise you are settling for less in your life.
The entire purpose of making a list of qualities that you want in another person and sticking to it, is to teach you how to "settle for more" in romance.
Remember, finding the one takes time. And dating is something that takes time and practice. Keep in mind that there is someone out there for everyone... Including you!
